Dating some 20 years older
Best thing to do is to just tell them and get it over with. I never thought twice about our relationship until i realized i was going to have to tell my mom. We value the same things, he makes me incredibly happy, and i love him.If you are wishy-washy at all about itn then you may be in for a storm. Then whatever anyone says (including your parents) doesn't matter. AND MORE IMPORTANTLY what YOU think about what they think. You are worried about what's going to happen, you are dreading breaking the news... If they don't like it will it tear you apart inside?
People will say bad things and people will say good things. you are absolutely right about being confident in what i'm doing, and i DO believe in what i am doing with him. There really is no way you can know what they will think... Will it tear apart the relationship you believe in?
When we both attempt to 'think' about our relationship, we have no answers to the questions from everyone else. It is only when we 'feel' how right the relationship is that our situation makes sense. My boyfriend is 24 years old older than me, I'm 22 .. But what concern him the most is my parents approval. But I could say that if he chose to let me go because of tough love...
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